I have been anticipating my parents demise as part of a consequence of their life choices for more years than I can count. With my grandmother now in her 80’s and an unhealthy sister they are now added to the list. With those part of my family I had to learn boundaries a long time ago but in more recent years I have learned loving them and helping how I can within boundaries is ok. It’s complicated. Many emotions over the years. Would love to chat some time.
I have been anticipating my parents demise as part of a consequence of their life choices for more years than I can count. With my grandmother now in her 80’s and an unhealthy sister they are now added to the list. With those part of my family I had to learn boundaries a long time ago but in more recent years I have learned loving them and helping how I can within boundaries is ok. It’s complicated. Many emotions over the years. Would love to chat some time.